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A lifestyle that encompasses a variety of activities and practices.

Are you into or do you have an interest in the following?

Discipline • Dominatrix • Control • Cuckold • CBT • Foot Worship • Discipline • Pegging • Slave • Rope Play • Pain • shibari • rubber fetish • spanking • Pet Play

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• Pleasure control • Caging • Suspension • femdom • watersports • chastity • Objectification • Sensory • Wax • Deprivation

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      How do you meet people that are interested in BDSM and want to make real connections?

Meeting other people just like you who are interested in BDSM dating isn't a problem anymore. BDSM is so popular now that it is the new normal. With Fetster it's easy to find people who are looking to explore relationship dynamics that are new and exciting. You are not limited to just being stuck in a group, you can make friends in your city or all over the world. With Fetster.com it's easier than ever to have an open conversation with other people who are interested in BDSM and want to share new ideas and experiences with you.

      How do I learn more about BDSM dating?

The best way to learn is to talk to other people in the community, and always get opinions from different people.Just remember that BDSM is about consent between both parties, and there should always be respect for your opinion and thoughts. Remember that BDSM is about fun and fantasy, expirementing and trying new things. It's about having fun and enjoying new experiences, and there is no one way to do anything.

      How do I find the right match for me?

Finding the perfect match is easy when you have an idea of what you are looking for. Joining a community of people who will listen and share their opinions and experiences is one of the most important things when first starting out. With BDSM there is always room for ideas, fanatasy, role playing and more. Once you make the right connection with someone you will find that you will be able to do new things that you might not be able to in normal everyday relationships. BDSM is always about consent and trust, the keyword being consent. BDSM has endless possibilities from dressing up to role play, to bondage and control. No matter what your style or interest always have a partner that listens to you and communicates well with you.

How do you meet people if you are looking to date and join a social network at the same time?

At fetster, you don't have to choose between a BDSM dating site or a BDSM social networking site, because you can use the site as either one. No matter what your interests you will find people just like you, who want to meet, talk, and share experiences with you. If you are looking for romance, advice, new experiences, opinions, or the love of your life fetster is for you.

How do I write and create a good BDSM dating profile?

Writing a BDSM Dating profile can be a bit difficult for some people, because they are not used to just discussing certain aspects of their lives, or fantasies with people they do not know well right off the bat. But on a BDSM dating site that is exactly what you do! On a bdsm dating site the most important thing you can do is tell people about HOW you are feeling and what you WANT. Communication and trust are the most important thing in BDSM, so you want to make sure your potential partners are interested in the same things that you are.

Discuss your ideas, fantasies and desires openly and clearly, let people know what you do and do not like, what things you would like to try, and what things you do not want to try (your limits). Try to include pictures of yourself or at least part of your body, pictures always go a long way on any dating site. ( How strange to have someone talk to you about getting together and you can's see them?)

When writing about yourself, let people know the things you want them to know, but be honest. Don't try and be something you think other people might want you to be, or feel that you have to be afraid of people judging you. In BDSM you want to always be who you want to be, not who someone else wants you to be. Bdsm allows you to escape from the every day life the outside world and lets you be whoever you want to be, and do the things you want to do. So always remember to be yourself and you will be able to make a great bdsm dating profile and have a successful bdsm experience.

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